Reflection

In life, we often encounter people or situations which force us to rethink our approach to handling certain issues and life in general.

Often, we ponder upon what went wrong and try to reflect and see if there are ways in which we could have handled the situation in a more ideal way. In a way which would have been more diplomatic and perhaps, the avoidance of an ugly scene happening would then be possible.

Since I started "work", so much has happened that I can't help but sit down and think about what has happened so far and would things be alot better had we not been too judgemental?

I don't deny that I'm guilty of judging. As much as I constantly remind myself not to, I can't help but do so sometimes.

Perhaps I'm still not keeping an open mind... Although I would like to believe that I do.

You know, it's not a bad thing to adapt yourself and compromise when things are not going your way. However, I personally feel that too much of a compromise and you end up stifling yourself. I mean we are all unique individuals isn't it? Then, of course it's only right that there WILL be differences here and there. But, what if one side has to keep compromising and giving in to the somewhat unreasonable behaviour of the other?

If we keep giving in, would it make things better? Or maybe, we could be making things worse without realising it. By giving in, we could be giving others the impression that we are pushovers . So, sometimes, standing firm to your ground when it's reasonable is not such a bad idea afterall.

At the end of the day, it's still youself that you have to answer to... not anyone else...